1) Never apologize for pursuing what makes you happy. Even if you
need to quit your job, transfer schools, or move across country, always
do what you really want.
2) Never apologize for using vernacular or pidgin english. Keeping it real doesn’t mean you have to speak "jandish".
3) Never apologize for giving your best in a relationship that just didn’t work out.
4) Never apologize for crying. Wear waterproof mascara and express yourself.
5) Never apologize for being successful. Only haters want to keep you at their level.
6) Never apologize for ten pounds you need to lose. People who truly care about you will accept you as you are.
7) Never apologize for wearing a weave or braids; it’s an accessory, you bought it so it’s yours.
8.) Never apologize for being frugal. Just because you save your money instead of blowing it on the latest fashion emergency doesn’t mean you’re cheap.
9) Never apologize for treating yourself to something special. Sometimes you have to show you some appreciation.
10) Never apologize for demanding respect. You are to always be treated as a Queen.
11) Never apologize for leaving an abusive relationship. Your safety should always be a priority.
12) Never apologize for making a decision from your heart, even if
others don’t agree, you have to live with the consequences, not them.
13) Never apologize for setting high standards in a relationship. You
know what you can tolerate and what simply gets on your nerves.
14) Never apologize for dating outside your tribe, religion or race. Just because you
found Mr. Right across the other line doesn’t mean you don’t love your brothers.
15) Never apologize to your new friends about old friends. There’s a reason she’s been your girl from day one.
16) Never apologize to your old friends about ‘new’ friends; God continues to bring His daughters together to uplift each other.
17) Never apologize for being a single Mom. Babies are a blessing.
18) Never apologize for saying NO
19) Never apologize for looking beautiful. You are beautiful.
20) Never apologize for not knowing how to cook. Even if you can’t
burn like Grandma you know how to order good take out. (Right Girl!)
21) Never apologize for making more money than your man, you work hard and you deserve to get paid.
22) Never apologize for changing your mind. It’s your prerogative.
23) Never apologize for someone else’s Bad Day: A friend snaps at you
and you’re expected to say sorry? Like seriously?!! Where is the logic in that?
24) Never apologize for being honest. People often say, “The truth
hurts,” or “you can’t handle the truth,” or “you don’t really want to
hear the truth.” The fact of the matter is everyone does WANT the truth.
25) Never apologize for being alone. Instead of feeling sorry for
yourself, relish in the opportunity to spoil and cherish yourself…to
meet only your demands….to listen to only your requests….. and to tend
to only your needs.
26) Never apologize to anyone for being single! Always remember just
like God is working on you; He is also working on your mate and when the
time is right you will meet!
27) Never apologize for being educated and behaving accordingly! Your mama didn’t raise a fool!
28) Never apologize for refusing to compromise your integrity. Always adhere to your moral and ethical principles.
29) Never apologize for not tolerating bad behavior, at home, in public, in the workplace.
30) Never apologize for taking a break. It’s more healthy and
beneficial to literally stop every once in a while to breathe, to let
your hair down, to relax, to rejuvenate. It’s necessary.
31) Never apologize for Investing in Your Looks. Its’ all about
feeling confident, not about doing yourself up to land a man. And it
makes facials, manicures, pedicures and the sauna worth every cent.
32) Never apologize for hoping your children will be gorgeous than your friends'. Honestly, your pals are hoping the same thing.
33) Never apologize for being inexperienced. That doesn’t mean you
lack great ideas. So stop prefacing sentences like “…but I did not, I am
not, I haven’t…’’ stick to what you’re training for or have been
trained in and be proud!
34) Never apologize for having a Crazy Family: Give your guy &
friends a heads up about them, but never insinuate that their problems
taint you.
35) Never apologize for helping others. Be free, do what you want to
do, not others, help happily where necessary, only mean people &
haters will laugh at you and pull you back.
36) Never apologize for saying exactly how you feel, only if you have
every reason and every right to feel that way. Respect and courtesy
must always be present though.
37) Never apologize for the books you like to read (that’s if you’re a
reader). You’re allowed to choose whatever kind of reading material you
like. You’re an adult, and well aware of all the choices out there. If
romance works for you, read them proudly. People don’t apologize for
liking romantic comedies at the movies, or chick flicks. They like them.
So what?
38) Never apologize for where you come from. There is a good reason
as to why God meant for you to be born there, it doesn’t matter whether
you’re from Asia, Africa, America we are all humans at the end of the
day, no one was born in the moon anyway.
39) Never Apologize for Loving the Lord, for calling His Name, for
Having Absolute Faith in Him, He’s your father, He’ll Light Your Path.
40) Never apologize for being YOU!
Almost forgot actually – (#40 something).. ”Never Apologise for
having Common sense…” tone down those irrelevant sayings… please!
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